Please watch the words that come out of your mouth. Be careful how you use your tone when you speak. Sometimes it's not what we say that hurts; it's how we say it.
Think back on a time when someone said something to you and it really hurt. Was it always what they said, or was it how they said it? “Proverbs 16:24 "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones." It's so important that we think before we speak. Saying the wrong words could kill someone inside, just as saying the right words could bring life.
While I was speaking with my grandmother in California, she started to say how she was still hurt from some things my grandfather said to her. He is no longer living now, and it's so hard for her to "let it go." Wow! Words are very powerful. Please remember before speaking, give careful consideration to the possible outcome. Think about it!